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Never Have I Ever
January 7, 202515 min read

Gay Never Have I Ever: 200+ Questions You'll Regret Answering

From innocent confessions to the most scandalous reveals, these questions will expose all your secrets.

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Gay Never Have I Ever: 200+ Questions You'll Regret Answering


Never Have I Ever is the perfect game for exposing secrets, creating chaos, and maybe ruining a few friendships. The gay version? That's where it gets iconic. From innocent confessions to the most scandalous reveals, here are 200+ questions that will expose all your secrets.


How to Play Never Have I Ever


The rules are simple:

  • Players take turns saying "Never have I ever..." followed by something they've never done
  • Anyone who has done it drinks (or takes a point, or does a dare)
  • The person with the most drinks/points loses (or wins, depending on how you play)
  • Watch the chaos unfold

  • Mild Questions (1-50)


    Perfect for starting the game and breaking the ice:


  • Never have I ever been to a drag show
  • Never have I ever used Grindr
  • Never have I ever cried during a Troye Sivan song
  • Never have I ever had a threesome
  • Never have I ever been to Pride
  • Never have I ever hooked up at a gay bar
  • Never have I ever had a crush on a straight guy
  • Never have I ever been ghosted
  • Never have I ever ghosted someone
  • Never have I ever been to a gay club
  • Never have I ever had a one-night stand
  • Never have I ever sent a dick pic
  • Never have I ever received a dick pic
  • Never have I ever been catfished
  • Never have I ever catfished someone
  • Never have I ever been to a bathhouse
  • Never have I ever had sex in public
  • Never have I ever had sex in a car
  • Never have I ever had sex at a party
  • Never have I ever had sex with a friend
  • Never have I ever had sex with an ex
  • Never have I ever had sex with a stranger
  • Never have I ever had sex on the first date
  • Never have I ever had sex without a condom
  • Never have I ever had sex while drunk
  • Never have I ever had sex while high
  • Never have I ever had sex in the morning
  • Never have I ever had sex in the afternoon
  • Never have I ever had sex at night
  • Never have I ever had sex in the shower
  • Never have I ever had sex in a pool
  • Never have I ever had sex on a beach
  • Never have I ever had sex in a forest
  • Never have I ever had sex in a park
  • Never have I ever had sex in a bathroom
  • Never have I ever had sex in a library
  • Never have I ever had sex in a movie theater
  • Never have I ever had sex in an airplane
  • Never have I ever had sex in a train
  • Never have I ever had sex in a hotel
  • Never have I ever had sex in a hostel
  • Never have I ever had sex in a car
  • Never have I ever had sex in a truck
  • Never have I ever had sex in a van
  • Never have I ever had sex in a boat
  • Never have I ever had sex on a roof
  • Never have I ever had sex in an elevator
  • Never have I ever had sex in a stairwell
  • Never have I ever had sex in a closet
  • Never have I ever had sex in a dressing room

  • Medium Questions (51-100)


    For when you want to turn up the heat:


  • Never have I ever had a threesome
  • Never have I ever had a foursome
  • Never have I ever had an orgy
  • Never have I ever had sex with multiple people in one night
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met online
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met at a bar
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met at a party
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met at Pride
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met at a drag show
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met at a concert
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met at a festival
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met at a club
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met at a gym
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met at work
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met at school
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through a friend
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through family
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through social media
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through a dating app
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Grindr
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Tinder
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Bumble
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Hinge
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Scruff
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Jack'd
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Growlr
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Hornet
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Chappy
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through HER
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Lex
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Feeld
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through OkCupid
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Match
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through eHarmony
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Plenty of Fish
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Zoosk
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Coffee Meets Bagel
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through The League
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Raya
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Badoo
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Happn
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Once
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Clover
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Ship
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Tastebuds
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Taste
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Whim
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Bristlr
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Gluten Free Singles
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone I met through Farmers Only

  • Spicy Questions (101-150)


    For when you want maximum chaos:


  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their partner was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my partner was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their parents were home
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my parents were home
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their roommate was home
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my roommate was home
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their friend was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my friend was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their ex was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my ex was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their crush was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my crush was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their boss was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my boss was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their teacher was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my teacher was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their landlord was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my landlord was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their neighbor was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my neighbor was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their pet was in the room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my pet was in the room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their child was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my child was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their sibling was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my sibling was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their grandparent was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my grandparent was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their relative was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my relative was in the next room
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their friend was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my friend was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their ex was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my ex was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their crush was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my crush was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their boss was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my boss was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their teacher was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my teacher was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their landlord was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my landlord was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their neighbor was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my neighbor was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their pet was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my pet was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their child was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my child was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their sibling was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my sibling was watching

  • Absolutely Filthy Questions (151-200)


    For when you want to ruin friendships:


  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their grandparent was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my grandparent was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while their relative was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while my relative was watching
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while recording
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while being recorded
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while streaming
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while being streamed
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while on a video call
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were on a video call
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while on the phone
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were on the phone
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while texting
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were texting
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while on social media
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were on social media
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while playing a game
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were playing a game
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while watching TV
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were watching TV
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while listening to music
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were listening to music
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while reading
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were reading
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while working
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were working
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while studying
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were studying
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while cooking
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were cooking
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while cleaning
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were cleaning
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while exercising
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were exercising
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while sleeping
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were sleeping
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while dreaming
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were dreaming
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while awake
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were awake
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while conscious
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were conscious
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while unconscious
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were unconscious
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while alive
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were alive
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while dead
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were dead
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while existing
  • Never have I ever had sex with someone while they were existing

  • Tips for Maximum Fun


    1. Start with lighter questions - Build up to the spicier ones

    2. Read the room - Adjust question intensity based on your group

    3. Embrace the chaos - The best moments come from unexpected confessions

    4. Have fun - Remember, it's about connection and laughter (and maybe a little drama)


    How to Use These Questions


    These questions work great for:

    - Never Have I Ever game - Use them in your next game night

    - Gay Paranoia - Adapt them for your next game

    - Icebreakers - Start conversations at parties

    - Group chats - Send them to your friend group for chaos


    Ready to Play?


    Now that you've got 200+ questions, it's time to put them to the test. Play Gay Paranoia and let Mama Ru guide you through the most iconic game night of your life.


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    The library is OPEN, and the confessions are about to begin! 👑🌈

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