100 Dirty Gay Questions for Parties & Pre-Drinks
Looking for questions that will make your party unforgettable? We've got you covered. From spicy to absolutely scandalous, here are 100 dirty gay questions guaranteed to make your friend group messy and your party iconic.
Flirty & Fun Questions (1-20)
Perfect for breaking the ice and getting to know each other:
Who here has the most rizz?Who would you most want to slow dance with?Who here has the best kiss?Who would you want to be your gay best friend in a movie?Who's most likely to get a number at a bar?Who would you trust to set you up on a date?Who's most likely to fall in love first?Who here gives off the most "I'm taken" energy?Who would you want to be your wingman?Who's most likely to get a second date?Who here has the most Grindr notifications right now?Who would you most want to see in drag?Who's most likely to get kicked out of a gay bar?Who here has the messiest dating history?Who would you trust to pick your outfit for Pride?Who's most likely to start drama in the group chat?Who here has the best gaydar?Who would you want to be stuck in an elevator with?Who's most likely to have a secret OnlyFans?Who here gives off the most "I'm not like other gays" energy?Spicy Questions (21-40)
For when you want to turn up the heat:
Who here is the biggest gossip?Who would you trust with your secrets?Who's most likely to start a fight at brunch?Who here has the most toxic ex?Who would you call to help you hide a body?Who's most likely to get canceled on Twitter?Who here has the messiest breakup story?Who would you trust to plan your birthday party?Who's most likely to overshare at a party?Who here has the most chaotic energy?Who here is the mom friend?Who's most likely to organize the group trip?Who would you trust to hold your drink at a party?Who here has the best group chat memes?Who's most likely to be late to everything?Who would you want to be your roommate?Who here has the most iconic friend group moments?Who's most likely to remember everyone's order at brunch?Who would you trust to take care of you when you're drunk?Who here is the glue that holds the friend group together?Scandalous Questions (41-60)
For when you want maximum chaos:
What's the wildest thing you've done for a hookup?What's your most embarrassing Grindr moment?What's the most public place you've hooked up?What's your wildest threesome story?What's the most scandalous thing you've done with an ex?What's your biggest sexual secret?What's the most embarrassing thing you've done to get someone's attention?What's your worst sexual experience?What's the most dramatic thing you've done after a breakup?What's the kinkiest thing you've ever done?What's your most embarrassing sexual experience?Who in this room have you thought about hooking up with?What's the most illegal thing you've done (that you're willing to share)?What's your worst breakup story?What's the most dramatic thing you've done for attention?What's your biggest regret in dating?What's the most scandalous thing you've done at a party?Who in this room would you most want to hook up with?What's your wildest hookup story?What's the most embarrassing thing you've done while drunk?Absolutely Filthy Questions (61-80)
For when you want to ruin friendships:
What's your biggest sexual fantasy?Who's the person you've had the most sexual tension with?What's the most spontaneous thing you've done?What's your biggest fear about dating?What's your worst dating app experience?Who was your first crush?What's the most embarrassing thing that's happened to you at a gay bar?Who in this room would you most want to kiss?What's your biggest turn-on?What's the wildest thing you've done in your college years?What's the craziest party you've ever been to?What's the most dangerous thing you've ever done?What's the wildest dare you've ever accepted?What's the most spontaneous thing you've ever done?What's a wild story from your past that sounds made up?What's the craziest thing you've done while traveling?What's the most exotic place you've ever visited?What's the worst travel experience you've ever had?What's the most beautiful place you've ever seen?What's the weirdest food you've tried while traveling?Maximum Chaos Questions (81-100)
For when you want to end friendships:
What's a travel destination on your bucket list?What's the longest trip you've ever taken?What's the most adventurous thing you've done while traveling?What's a travel story that sounds unbelievable?What's the worst date you've ever been on?What's the most romantic thing someone has done for you?What's your worst breakup story?What's the most awkward first date you've had?What's the best relationship advice you've ever received?What's a relationship red flag you ignored?What's the sweetest thing a friend has done for you?What's your most embarrassing crush story?What's the worst job you've ever had?What's the most embarrassing thing that happened at work or school?What's the weirdest boss or teacher you've ever had?What's the biggest mistake you made at work or school?What's the best job perk you've ever had?What's the most interesting project you've worked on?What's a work or school story that still makes you laugh?What's the most awkward interview you've ever had?How to Use These Questions
These questions work great for:
- Gay Paranoia - Use them in your next game for maximum drama
- Truth or Dare - Perfect for the "truth" part
- Never Have I Ever - Adapt them to "Never have I ever..." format
- Icebreakers - Start conversations at parties
- Group chats - Send them to your friend group for chaos
Tips for Maximum Fun
1. Start with lighter questions - Build up to the spicier ones
2. Read the room - Adjust question intensity based on your group
3. Embrace the chaos - The best moments come from unexpected answers
4. Have fun - Remember, it's about connection and laughter (and maybe a little drama)
Safety First
Create a safe space where everyone feels comfortableRespect boundaries - if someone doesn't want to answer, that's okayDon't pressure anyone to answer questions they're uncomfortable withHave fun, but keep it consensualReady to Play?
Now that you've got 100 dirty questions, it's time to put them to the test. Play Gay Paranoia and let Mama Ru guide you through the most iconic game night of your life.
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